Molded by the past, not defined by it..

We all have skeletons in our closet, and have done things we are not proud of, that's what makes us human beings. One thing about people is, they will bring up an obstacle or decision you've made that you are not proud of when you reach a certain level of success. The sad part about this is, the people who do this are close to you. I have never been the type of person to let material things, or success, change my attitude. I am fully aware that through great things you must remain humble; because the faster God gave you blessings the quicker he can take them away. I am a strong believer that your past should not be regretted but taken as a learning experience. No one can truly appreciate their future if they haven't had a past. Life is all about teaching, learning and evolving. When people throw your past in your face, they are just jealous. Those are the type of people that secretly kick you when you are down. (Be aware of True colors).


Tip: your past is meant to mold you into the great, successful, strong, and confident person god wants you to be. You can't live if you have never learned how too.

success and opportunity or success and misery...?

Lately, I have been asking God for strength and clarity so that I can gain wisdom and make the right choices. I have begin to see that there is so much dog eat dog madness. People with authority abuse their power too often. Targeting people who are at a lower status than them, they tend to play coward and never aim for the people on the same position as them or above. I couldn’t help but wonder why. So, being me I observed the behavior of these people. They are usually uncomfortable, greedy, or miserable. They have never or rarely had the upper hand in their life. Or, they do not know how to keep their personal issues separate from their business. Too often successful people let their success take over their character and become monsters! I feel like if animosity is all you have to offer to people of a lower social status than you, you can offer the world nothing but negativity.

Tip: be nice to the “little people” because once you were the little people…