True Colors

A lot of people say that "when someone shows their true colors believe them." It took me a while but i've actually incoporated this prior knowledge into friendships and relationships. I've analyzed that the people we grow attached too ( particularly friends or lovers), tend to always have a characteristic that captures our attention, ultimately forming a bond between the two. But as time goes by you may began to notice things that can leave you with a question mark in their character; and it isnt until a disagreement,or a break up that u actually see that person's true colors. Need more clarity?  Well, For example, a relationship, you can be with a person for months maybe even years before you both decide it's not working and you break up. This should be a time to reflect on yourself, to get out and enjoy your life, by yourself for a while; but some people jump into another relationship. This is where they show their TRUE COLORS. When this happens, if you aren't with anyone, naturally your mind begins to wonder and you begin to question your previous relationship. " did he really like/love me? ,did I mean anything to him?", "is it time for me to enter a new relationship?" etc. it's not healthy to think like this but it happens and when it does you have to make a choice: get mad, get even, or get over it. If you get mad you are only hurting yourself, if you get even you still will be hurting yourself. why? because you are making a permanent decision based on temporary emotions. All decisions you make in your life should be for your best interest. So, with that example and those words, when someone shows their true colors  believe them and move on there is no sense in stepping out of your element for anyone EVER.